Monday, November 16, 2009

Can a young, light-skinned, African-American female get a Chinese boyfriend while in Beijing on a homestay?

I know how there seems to be a barrier between Asian men and Black women, even here in America. I'm also aware of how many Asians don't like black people. So I'm curious to know what would a black female's chances be in China to get a Chinese boyfriend or any Asian boyfriend for that matter. If she approached a Chinese male and attempted to start a conversation, would she be snubbed? Would anyone approach her?

Can a young, light-skinned, African-American female get a Chinese boyfriend while in Beijing on a homestay?
To the average chinese pheasant, you are no different than any other foreigners regardless color of your skin. i.e. you'll get about the same attention of a pale caucasian female of your age.


Yes, it's true that the average chinese don't come into contact with an Afro-American very often. (Straight number and odds etc) So like most conservative people, they shy away from the unknown.


But I know many chinese that see beyond the skin color thing. I myself am one. I do not see myself any different than others as we are all earthlings. So, keep an open mind and good luck.
Reply:I would heartily agree with minijumbo. Many young Chinese men are very curious about black people and women (like Beyonce' and Halle Berry in particular!); I think you'll find them very receptive to you, but expect them to be a bit shy. Report It

Reply:if she were really hot and she didn't have extremely frizzy hair, i'm sure she'd do alright
Reply:you wont be snubbed in a conversation. they will be friendly. dont worry about it.


i think that it just depends on where you go. modern chinese are open to many things.


have fun with it.
Reply:i think anything is possible. you will never know if you don't try. good luck!
Reply:Dating has a lot more to do with attraction and individual personalities than real or perceived racial preferences.


Some people are just OBNOXIOUS and would only be considered for dates by cockroaches and slugs.(the person that was directed to knows who he is if he has half a brain.He wears his name well.)
Reply:Yeah, girl, go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Although, I would prefer Japanese guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Typically Chinese people like very very white skin. I am a German and if a get the slightest tan in china they tell me I am black and to get out of the sun. But I think in a city like Beijing there will be people who don't care about this.


Just like in America all the white women who are models have tans, but in real life a pale German like me can still get dates.


It is funny though because my boyfriend will always point out women to our chinese friends who he thinks are good looking. The Chinese always think they are too dark skinned and look like peasants.


Anyway, in Beijing just remember that you are coming from a country that is considered rich, and the women are considered to be easy. So watch out for yourself. Maybe someone will be interested in you for the wrong reasons ex. money, sex, learning English for free.


Saying that it is China and it is one of the safest places in the world and most Chinese have good intentions.
Reply:Don't listen to all this crap the people above are saying, I will tell you the truth and I won't sugar coat it or dip it in the trash.


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The truth is it all depends on "him". He might even not like you cause you are too light, some asian men prefer darkskinned black women some light some not at all.





It depends on the persons.





You will hear all this they only like white skin and stuff, well let me tell you something.





I was dating this chinese girl, and I said "Wow you are so pale and white" cause I thought it was a compliment to her cause I was listening to all theses stereotypes. She went OFF! I have never seen an asian women go off before, now I am like damn I messed up cause of listening to all these idiots.





Just go over there and find him get married or whatever and be happy, cause asia is big are sure to find someone.
Reply:those asians you motioned can not be Chinese,there's no skin color difference in China,ppl just never aware that,if you motioned 'race' ,Chinese would thought you mean animals,there are 56 nations in China ppl never know about which nation you belong,neither do they care,the chance for a black girl to get a chinese guy would be the same chance for a chinese girl to get a chinese guy,I'm a Chinese and I grow up in China I just know that.
Reply:Are you kidding, a chinese man would go out with a black chick in a second. The only problem is black girls have deep coochies, and Iv'e heard (i dunno if it's ture) that Asian guys have very smallDicks so I dunno if it would work out on a sexual basis
Reply:Some good advice: Start the conversation off with the following, "Me so horny, me love you long time (with a chinese accent)"--works everytime.


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